We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
Korea's volleyball queen, Kim Yeon Koung!
(Kim Yeon Koung, Korea's volleyball queen)
Welcome!
The more you see him, the more charming he becomes.
Actor Woo Hyun!
(Woo Hyun, the charming actor)
Choi Jung Won!
Hello.
- Niel! - Niel!
(Niel with beautiful lips)
- All right. - It's nice to see you.
I heard Yeon Koung decided to come on the show today...
- for a special reason. - I heard you wanted to see someone.
- I wanted to see all the hosts, - I see.
but I wanted to see especially Yeong Ja.
- Yeong Ja? - Yes.
Goodness. Then why did you act awkward around me before?
- Right. - When we were putting on a mic,
we greeted each other, but I thought I smelled bad.
When you meet someone you really like...
- It's hard to talk to that person. - I know.
- You could feel awkward. - Why did you want to meet her?
She knows a lot of famous restaurants.
- Recently, - So I was wondering...
- so many people ask me that too. - She's my kind.
Everyone thinks that I gained information for free.
But I spent a lot of money.
She has a great deal of information.
What kind of restaurant would you like to know?
Please tell me your favorite food.
- I like street food. - I see.
- Like tteokbokki? - Yes. Like sundae...
- I see. - Sundae, fish cake,
- and deep-fried food. - Yes, deep-fried food.
- Gimbap, tteokbokki, and sundae. - You dip deep-fried food...
- in tteokbokki sauce... - That's right.
- and eat an egg at the end. - That's right.
Then you eat some fish tofu. What else do you like?
I like dishes made with chicken.
I like chicken legs...
There's an order of eating chicken.
People say that they ate the whole chicken after eating chicken breast.
But you should start with the neck, eat the breast,
and finish with the feet.
After that, the lady's...
soy bean... Soy bean paste stew.
- I'll tell you where it is. - Don't spit while speaking.
She likes her own saliva the most.
(Swallowing)
My own saliva tastes best out of everything.
- She keeps savoring it. - Of course.
Isn't he so attractive?
- Since he just made his debut, - He's fabulous.
- I've been seeing him. - As a member of UN.
A lot of men are envious of you, right?
However, I looked older than I actually were when I was younger.
- What? - So...
- Don't say that in front of Hyun. - What?
Exactly.
He's different from Hyun, but he looked older than his age.
I'm sorry to say this about Hyun,
but I'm sure he didn't look very different when he was young.
- So... - When I was in college...
When my friends saw me for the first time,
- they thought I was a professor. - Exactly.
(This is how he looked when he was 25.)
- Exactly. - They're very different.
Niel is here representing his group.
Let's hear his new song.
(Let's hear his new song.)
("Seoul Night" by Teen Top)
(I'm falling in love with you)
(She can't keep the beat, but her heart is sincere.)
(Niel's attractive dance moves)
(Teen Top's "Seoul Night")
(Thumbs up)
He's good!
Those who watched our last week's episode must know...
that someone made a promise.
(If I get more than 100 votes,)
(I'll quit drinking, which I failed to do for the past 23 years.)
(He promised he'll quit drinking to all the Koreans.)
(We wonder if he's keeping his promise.)
Hello, everyone.
I appeared... Well...
Can you see this?
(He's speaking formally.)
I used to drink soju-beer cocktail, but now,
I drink onion juice instead of alcohol.
Put it down. If there are bubbles, it means there's beer in it.
(Tapping)
You can believe me now, right?
(The second week of quitting drinking)
(His son is setting up a hidden camera.)
It's my onion juice.
Dad, aren't you craving alcohol?
Of course I am.
My friends gave me soju-beer cocktail.
So I meant to drink it secretly,
but one of my friends said, "I watched the show."
(There have been spies everywhere after he made the promise.)
I was so surprised and said, "I'm sorry."
I couldn't drink even a glass.
I made the promise on TV,
so I should try my best to keep it.
(That's right.)
For the past week since our last week's show,
he hasn't even had a sip of alcohol drink.
That's great.
Today, we have three worries as always.
I wonder what they are. Let's find out.
"Sibling Peace Treaty".
"The Final Warning".
- "Please Spike My Friend". - "Spike"?
"Sibling Peace Treaty".
Our staff members arranged this in a timely manner.
North and South Korea are trying to reconcile with each other.
Siblings should be able to reconcile.
- Let's make it happen today. - Let's do that.
Let's start with "Sibling Peace Treaty".
- You can stretch your legs. - For 10 years...
- My goodness. - You can.
- It's really hard for Yeon Koung... - You can stretch your legs.
to sit with legs crossed.
Among all the people who have been here, she's got the longest legs.
Her feet are really big.
Compare the size of your hands.
I was...
(Her hand is as big as a man's hand.)
- Is Niel's hand big too? - It's bigger than Niel's.
(Yeong Ja slowly approaches her.)
(Let me join in.)
Niel's hand is small.
(Yeong Ja's feet are cute compared to Yeon Koung's.)
My goodness.
- I had never looked so small. - Right.
My goodness.
This person sent us this letter...
hoping that this will resolve...
the 10-year-long conflict.
It's titled "Sibling Peace Treaty".
Hello. I am a man in 20s who has many concerns.
I have a sister who is two years younger than me.
Typically, siblings always argue.
They always fight and curse at each other.
I want to experience that too.
My sister and I have not...
spoken a word to each other...
in the last 10 years.
(For 10 years?)
One time, I forgot to take the keys.
My sister was home alone.
But I ended up jumping over a wall...
and entering the house like a robber.
(He does everything to avoid his sister.)
Thankfully,
we have a brother who's the youngest.
"Hey, ask her if she's going to eat."
"Are you going to eat?"
"I'm going to eat. What's for dinner?"
"She's eating. She's asking what's for dinner."
(The youngest brother is their only connection.)
"It's kimchi jjigae."
"Ask her what time she's going to eat."
"Come on."
"You should just talk to each other."
But I really can't handle talking to her.
Please help us.
(Please help us.)
How many siblings do you have, Yeon Koung?
I have two elder sisters, and I am the youngest.
You must be sick of hearing this.
- Are your sisters as tall as you? - Yes. They are.
- Are they? - Yes.
My eldest sister is over 180cm tall.
My second sister is over 175cm.
(They have superior genes.)
It must be really loud when you are together.
- All the sisters. - We get along very well.
We have unusual personalities, but...
- It's really nice to have... - A lot of siblings.
- Yes. - Yes.
- They're always there for you. - When you're home,
you always fight with each other.
But when one of you gets bullied outside...
I have three siblings. When it happens, we all fight together.
- That must be so scary. - We fight together.
That must be really scary.
(Just the thought of it scares us.)
Let's meet the guest. Please come on out.
(Who is the man that hasn't spoken to his sister for 10 years?)
(Kim Tae Hyeong)
(Welcome.)
Have you really not said a word to your sister for 10 years?
Yes. We have never talked.
Even when I talk about my sister to other people,
I talk as if she's a stranger.
- As if she's a stranger? - Yes.
We worked together for a short period of time.
We took the same bus on the way to work and on the way home.
My sister sat in the very front, and I sat in the very back.
What's the reason you don't talk to her?
- Honestly... - Do you remember it?
I don't remember it precisely.
There are three of us, and...
- You are 25 years old. - Yes.
- Your sister is... - 20...
- 22? - 23.
Did you even forget her age?
(Did he forget her age?)
That's understandable.
- How about the youngest one? - He's 20 now.
- 20. - Yes.
They are all adults.
10 years ago, my little sister and brother had a fight.
And my sister was dragging a blanket.
A thread from the blanket...
got stuck between my little brother's teeth.
When she dragged the blanket,
a thread got stuck on your brother's frontal teeth.
So what happened?
His gum got torn, and he bled a lot.
I went up to my sister and asked her to apologize to him.
But she never did.
So I rolled a newspaper...
and hit her face hard.
- Her face? - Yes.
(No way.)
- How old were you? - 15.
You were 15, 13, and 10.
She cried a lot at the time.
- I think that's why... - Then...
does your sister get along well with your brother who bled a lot?
Yes.
(They are like best friends now.)
While stopping them from fighting...
They get along just fine.
(That's very ironic.)
Have you tried reconciling with her?
Did you have no intention of reconciling with her?
I wanted to reconcile with her.
But I didn't take any actions.
When I got older,
I gave her money a few times through my little brother.
You did it through your little brother?
Then something must've happened during the delivery.
You don't know if she really got it or not.
(So that's what happened.)
I'm sure he delivered it to her.
Has she never returned it?
- Never. - Never?
Have you increased the amount?
- No. - Has it been consistent?
- Has it been consistent? - Yes, it has.
- How much did you give her? - 50 dollars.
- 50 dollars. - 50 dollars.
It's a perfect amount for the youngest to take.
(It's just enough money for the youngest.)
If she received it,
she would've expressed her thanks to you...
- when you met her. - Right.
How many times did you give it to her? Once or twice?
(How many times did he give money to her?)
I think I gave her money more than twice.
And nothing changed?
- That's right. - It's the youngest.
- The youngest brother. - It's him.
It's the youngest brother.
- The youngest. - All right.
I am actually very curious.
We will find out the truth later.
It must be hard for you two, but it must be toughest...
for the youngest.
- Right. - I heard this from Mom.
My brother came home drunk...
and asked if my sister and I are not family.
When I heard that, I felt sorry.
- Right. - Yes.
Your parents must be even more worried.
- This is... - I think...
their mother would feel very bad about it.
You and your sister...
have been doing everything in your power for 10 years...
to be bad children to your parents.
- Right. - When I became an adult,
because I am the eldest,
I thought I should resolve the situation.
But I don't know how.
Your mother must've been really frustrated.
The assailant might not remember it well.
But it might be a big shock...
to the victim.
So we need to hear from his sister.
We need to hear about the money's whereabouts as well.
That's what I'm most curious about.
Let's meet his sister. Hello.
Hello.
(Who's his sister whom he hasn't talked to in 10 years?)
Hello. Hello.
Say hello to your brother.
She can't do it. She can't.
(She feels very awkward.)
Isn't it uncomfortable to not talk to your brother?
It doesn't feel good.
And I get conscious of him too.
Have you never thought about approaching him first?
When I was a high school junior,
I bought sundae and took it home.
- And he was alone. - Your brother was alone.
- You gave it to him. - So...
I put it in front of him.
But he didn't even look at it. He didn't eat it until the end.
(He didn't look at it, and he didn't eat it.)
At that time...
- You felt bad, didn't you? - Yes. I felt bad.
Why did you not eat the sundae?
(Why did he ignore it?)
- Do you not like sundae? - I don't remember it.
No. I like sundae.
I don't remember it.
She put it in front of you.
I don't remember it at all.
Perhaps it was too close to see.
(Maybe he didn't see it.)
Maybe his eyes were crossed.
He was playing a game with his phone.
He was playing a game.
If you told him to eat sundae,
he would've known. But you didn't...
- have the courage to talk. - I couldn't talk to him.
Yes.
Your brother was telling us about...
- what happened... - I am sorry.
But I am really curious.
What happened to that sundae?
I am sorry.
I had to know. I am sorry.
- Other family members ate it. - Cold sundae is bad.
- What happened? - Dad ate it.
- Dad ate it. - Their dad ate it.
That's good news.
(I'm going to eat sundae on the way home tonight.)
Your brother told us...
about what might have caused this situation.
He said he rolled a newspaper and hit you.
Did you really become distant after that incident?
No. I don't remember that incident at all.
(What? Then what was the cause?)
- I don't remember it. - Do you not remember it?
I asked my little brother, and he doesn't remember it either.
But your gum got torn. How can you not know?
You got hit with newspaper.
She doesn't remember it because she was so young then.
It seems like they don't remember things well.
So it's revealed now.
What do you think is the reason then?
(What does she think the reason is?)
I don't think there is a special reason for it.
We just grew distant.
- So nothing special happened. - No.
You don't remember it.
Honestly, I don't remember when we stopped talking.
Right. How...
- How vain is this? - What's going on?
He said he jumped over the wall because he didn't have a key.
Did you know about this?
Yes. I saw him.
- You saw him? - You saw him.
- You saw him jumping over the wall. - Yes.
You should've opened the door when he was jumping.
(He's getting embarrassed.)
I thought he should've knocked on the door.
That's what I thought.
You went to work riding the same bus.
- That's right. - Why did you sit separately?
I think it was because it felt uncomfortable.
- It felt awkward. - Yes.
One time, he made me sad.
After work, when we were going home,
I got off the bus first and started walking to the house.
It was late in the night.
I thought he was going to follow me from behind.
But he took another path.
- He let you walk alone. - Yes.
She wanted you to follow her. Why did you take another path?
- I wanted to take a shortcut. - A shortcut?
"This path is faster." And you went that way.
You didn't even think...
that it could be dangerous for her.
- I didn't think about that. - That's not good.
- So... - She would feel bad.
They feel the same.
- There's no problem. - They are both uncomfortable.
They both want to fix their relationship.
Yeon Koung is more frustrated.
You really feel uncomfortable, don't you?
When we are together in one space...
I'm sure they do.
It feels uncomfortable. So I tend to avoid him.
In that case, you could text him.
Don't tell me you don't know his cell phone number.
I know his number.
Do you not even message each other?
No. Never.
Do you know her number?
(Does he know his sister's number?)
No.
- You don't know her number? - No.
That's terrible.
- It is. - It's terrible.
I thought she was hitting him.
(You will see me in private.)
Her number has changed. I think it's been about four years.
It's been four years, and you don't have her number.
- Do you know her old number? - It's an excuse.
Do you know the old number then?
I still have her old number.
You still have her old number.
He still has her old number.
He's got her number from four years ago.
When you have something to say to your elder brother,
do you talk to him through your little brother?
Most of the time.
One time, he had to go to work,
but he kept sleeping. So I told my little brother to call him...
and wake him up. He kept sleeping.
Poor little brother.
So you were worried that your brother would be late.
He's often late to work.
- She cares about her brother. - She does.
Did your little brother tell you that your sister...
told him to call you because she was worried about you?
- He just woke me up. - He just woke you up.
The little brother is like a black hole. He absorbs everything.
My goodness.
(Is this the little brother's big picture?)
(It's shady.)
Did you safely receive the 50 dollars...
your elder brother sometimes gave you?
Yes. I remember getting it once or twice.
- Once or twice? - Once or twice?
(We want to know what happened.)
How many times did you give him the money?
(Let's begin.)
- About 4 times. - 4 times?
At least four times.
(The number doesn't match.)
He doesn't remember it precisely.
But it was 3 to 4 times.
But his sister only got it once or twice.
Little brother.
- The time has come. - You have the right to an attorney.
Did you give your sister the money?
(Did he deliver the money well?)
I don't remember well.
(He doesn't remember it.)
(He insists that he doesn't know.)
How can you...
(How dare you...)
Did you take the rest?
- You... - I don't remember it well.
(I don't remember it well.)
By the way, the little brother deserves it.
It must've been so tough for him to be in the middle.
- We have to understand him. - He was stuck in between.
You think you deserve to be paid that price, don't you?
Yes, I think I deserve it.
(We caught you.)
We got you.
Perhaps he will now stop talking to his little brother.
(Perhaps he will stop talking to his little brother now.)
(I will see you at home.)
I heard recently you got drunk...
and complained about it...
to your family.
I asked if they are not family.
I asked why they are not talking.
I was really drunk at the time.
So Mom dragged me to my room and put me to sleep.
Did she tell you to mind your own business?
Do your elder brother and sister...
ask you about how the other sibling is doing?
Yes, they sometimes ask.
What do they ask?
They usually ask if the other person is home.
They ask if the other person is in.
One time, he asked if she's got a boyfriend.
He asked me once.
- He asked if she's got a boyfriend? - Yes.
So what did you tell him?
She didn't have a boyfriend then, so I told him she didn't have one.
But did you know about it when she had a boyfriend?
No. She's never had a boyfriend.
- Never? - Never.
(I see.)
It ended as a sad story.
(We are sorry that it's a sad ending.)
It must've been really hard for the parents for the past 10 years.
I know because I am a father too. Children never know how you feel.
- Right. - It's been frustrating, hasn't it?
It's been really frustrating.
They got along very well when they were little.
But they stopped talking at one point.
I asked them why they weren't talking.
And they both didn't know.
Around that time, I started working.
So I wasn't able to give them too much attention.
You never knew it was going to drag on for so long.
You thought they'd come around.
You must've tried...
to make them reconcile.
We had never been on a family trip.
- Really? - Yes. So last summer,
- You went on a trip. - we went on our first family trip.
My eldest son...
just slept in the room.
So the four of us hung out together.
You could've used the opportunity...
to have fun with the family. Why didn't you?
I felt awkward being around with my sister,
so I avoided her.
You must've known your parents' intention.
- I didn't know. - You didn't know?
Have you always been that slow-witted?
My goodness. Did you know then?
(Did his sister not know it either?)
- You didn't know? - I didn't know.
I think it's their genes.
- It's... - My goodness.
I thought the father could talk to...
his son about this problem.
He could persuade him.
- Sir? - I am...
not very talkative.
Over drinks,
my son and I have talked about this problem.
He wants to resolve the situation, but he doesn't know how.
Between the two, who do you think is more problematic?
It must be their parents who have more problems.
- My goodness. Why say that? - Don't say that.
We failed as parents.
He must've felt really bad about this.
(All the resentments made him emotional.)
(But it's not his fault.)
Kids, your father is crying.
You have to reconcile.
(Only if we did our job well as parents,)
(you would've been close.)
(Feeling sorry, she can't stop crying.)
What can you do for them? They are all grown-ups.
They are not elementary school kids.
They don't have any reasons to hate each other.
- That's even sadder. - Right.
Their father suddenly became emotional, and I was shocked.
So...
- Sir. - She's crying too.
Are you sad that your father is crying?
- Why are you crying? - They never knew...
his father was going to blame himself so much...
and that he is hurt that much.
They must've never thought of it.
Your father is crying hard.
Is there anything you want to say to your father?
It's all my fault.
How about you?
Your father is blaming himself.
They must regret about not making things better.
It's not his fault, is it?
- It's not his fault. - Tell him that.
Tell him that it's not his fault.
(He's still crying.)
He's really hurt.
- My gosh. - Everyone...
feels the same about it.
- He feels the same. - Right.
His sister feels the same.
To raise the children well...
and to support the family, they must've worked so hard.
And yet he is blaming himself...
that he didn't do his job well.
Get some tissue for him.
Please stop crying, sir.
Why is this your fault?
I think it's the mother's fault.
I am sorry.
- Is that it? - He's crying too much.
It's Yeon Koung's fault.
- Why are you so tall? - It's my fault.
- It is. - Then...
why don't you tell your son and daughter...
what you want to say to them?
From now on, I want us to laugh and talk together a lot.
I want us to go on trips and live happily.
I love you, Tae Hyeong, Seul Gi.
My goodness.
(He shared his sincere feelings for his family.)
What made you decide to send the letter to us?
What are you worried about the most?
- I am worried about my sister. - You are worried about her.
She only stays home. She goes out...
about once a month.
She dropped out of college only after a year.
She worked at the company I work for.
But she quit within a month.
Because she only stays at home...
She's already a timid person,
and it's making her self-esteem even lower.
I think it's only going to make her more timid.
- He's the elder brother. - He was worried about her.
He knows everything about his sister's personality.
He wasn't indifferent.
He simply didn't show that he cared.
Why didn't you go outside?
He said I go out once a month, but that's not true.
I go out 2 or 3 times a week.
Whose sister were you talking about?
(He failed to be the cool brother.)
Why did you drop out of university?
About the time I graduated from high school,
the condition of my skin worsened...
and I developed eczema...
around my body.
(She didn't want to go to school because of eczema.)
Your brother thinks...
your self-esteem dropped.
I think it dropped further after I struggled with eczema.
(Pondering)
Hyun, you seem to be deep in thoughts...
as you listen to the siblings' story.
You are paying attention, right?
Yes, I am.
You seem to be deep in thoughts.
When I fight with my wife,
I don't speak for 3 or 4 days.
You said you study each other in the house.
- All of my focus... - It's on your wife.
- is on everything my wife does. - That's right.
When my wife does the dishes noisily,
my heart beats noisily.
When my wife pounds on the laundry, my heart pounds.
Living that way for 3 or 4 days...
makes me feel like...
- my lifespan will shorten. - It's uncomfortable.
- They did it for 10 years. - 10 years.
Seriously.
If the two of you get married and have children,
- they will... - The tie will be severed.
That's right. I don't think they will see each other.
I am really glad that you visited the show.
That's right. You can feel that...
your brother has always cared...
about you, right?
Yes.
Are you thankful...
that he worries about you?
(Hesitant)
Yes.
(Yes, I am thankful.)
(He is happy.)
You should meet your brother's eyes now.
- You should meet... - That's right.
your sister's eyes now.
(Glancing)
Their eyes met! Give them a big hand.
(Wow!)
Gaze into each other's eyes.
It's obvious that they are siblings.
Sir, your son and daughter made an eye contact for the first time.
I am glad you came today.
- I am glad you sent your worry. - That's right.
Please say...
the things you wanted to say...
to your sister.
You know her name, right?
(She asks just in case.)
Call her name.
(In 10 years,)
(he will call his sister's name.)
Seul... Seul...
He hasn't called her name in a while.
Go ahead.
(He is nervous.)
(They pray with one mind...)
(that he will gather his courage.)
Seul... Seul Gi.
(Touched)
Seul Gi, from now on,
- I will talk more. - His sister is crying.
Please talk more.
Cheer up because you have me behind your back.
Promise her something she was the most nervous about.
"I will give you your allowances myself."
It's important.
- Allowances. - "From now on..."
From now on, I will give you your allowances myself.
I won't have our brother deliver them.
(Upset)
Please call your brother's name and say a few words to him.
She will call her brother's name in 10 years.
Tae Hyeong.
She will call his name.
(She hasn't called his name in 10 years.)
(Well...)
(Hesitant)
Tae Hyeong.
(She did it.)
I will try hard,
so please approach me first.
Answer her. She wants you to approach her first.
Keep the conversation going.
I will try hard to approach you first.
(Thank you, Tae Hyeong.)
Did you go on a trip and take pictures in the past?
Yes, we did,
- but their faces were dark. - I see.
- That's right. - In that case,
let's take a family picture...
with everyone smiling.
- Let's do that. - Sir.
Please come on out.
Seul Gi, stand next to go your brother.
Her younger brother will stand next to her.
(His hand doesn't touch her shoulder.)
Stand next to him.
(They became a happy family in 10 years.)
I will take a picture.
Look here.
In 1, 2.
(It took a long time for them to show their sincerity.)
(They were family and friends...)
(back in the days.)
(They will comfort each other from now on.)
- Niel. - Yes?
Do you think it's a worry?
I believe their relationship will improve even more.
That's why I don't think it's a worry.
Personally, my heart ached...
when Tae Hyeong's father apologized.
I know.
- I almost shed tears. - When a parent apologizes...
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good children.
- Is it a worry? - It's a worry.
- It's a worry. - It's a serious worry.
- You think it's a worry. - A serious worry.
Because I lived in the dormitory ever since I was little,
I didn't get to spend a lot of time with my sisters and family.
I hope you will make good memories...
from now on.
Living that way in the same house for 10 years...
is definitely a worry.
Even a dog would be worried.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Let's see how many votes the worry got.
Show us the result.
"Sibling Peace Treaty".
Will the peace treaty come into effect?
It got over 100 votes.
(How many votes will "Sibling Peace Treaty" get?)
- 129 votes. - 129 votes.
(129 votes)
This is "The Final Warning".
Hello, I am a woman in my 30s who lives in Gwangju.
I am so busy that having 10 bodies won't be enough.
"Honey, it's 8am."
"Wake up and eat breakfast."
"My first child, go to the elementary school."
"My second child, go to the kindergarten."
"My third child, wake up."
I have children who are 8, 6, and 4 years old respectively.
I am a mother of three sons.
She is a patriot.
(She is a mother of three sons.)
Not only that,
I run a salmon sushi restaurant I opened with my husband.
How can she do that while she raises three children?
I take all three of my sons to the restaurant.
The 2nd son is 6 years old.
Six years old.
"Mom."
"I am hungry!"
"Gosh, it's so loud."
"Get your children to quiet down."
"I am sorry. I am sorry."
"We have a customer. Please quiet down."
I work until 2am.
(She works until 2am.)
"Honey, would you please let me rest?"
"You do nothing."
"You don't help me in any way."
How can he say that?
I am pregnant with a fourth child.
(She is pregnant with a fourth child.)
- I am due next month. - Goodness.
(My goodness.)
Why does my husband make me work like a slave?
Please save me.
What is your first impression, Yeon Koung?
I think it's amazing that she has lived with him so far.
I know what it's like since I have two brothers.
It's not easy to raise three sons...
when I think about it now.
She works on top of it.
It must be hard.
Let's talk to the woman who sent us the worry.
Please come on out.
(Who has three sons, a job, and a baby in her belly?)
(Her steps are light.)
(Go Mi Young)
Welcome.
We thought we would need to support you.
You are due next month.
- Yes. - Why are you so energetic?
You don't have a big belly. My belly is about the same age.
Isn't that right?
When are you due next month?
May 20th.
- You don't have much time. - Seriously.
- You have less than a month. - You have less than a month.
Did you get pregnant again to have a daughter...
this time?
No, I didn't.
- The sex of the baby... - You know by now, right?
has been informed, right?
It's a boy.
(The fourth child is a boy.)
(My goodness.)
My goodness, congratulations.
Congratulations. Why are you reacting that way?
She has five boys if she includes her husband.
It must be uncomfortable since you are heavily pregnant.
Is there a reason why you visited the show at this time?
This is the last warning.
What will you do if this warning doesn't get through to him?
I will take my three children and leave.
You are thinking about taking a drastic measure.
Please tell us about the situation.
No matter how much I tell him...
that I want to rest, he doesn't listen.
I am really worried that I will end up...
working with my fourth child as well.
Do you have to work with children in tow...
at the sushi restaurant?
What does your husband do?
He has a food truck selling sushi.
He sells salmon sushi.
Yes.
Do you work with three children in tow?
I carry my youngest child as I serve the dishes,
run the cash register, and make sushi.
I also slice sashimi.
I work that way.
Do you work alone without an employee?
The part-timer works only 3 or 4 hours a day.
There is a part-timer.
I work until the restaurant closes.
If you ask for your husband's help, does he really say that...
you haven't helped him in any way?
Does he really say that?
He yells at me in front of the children.
My first child covers his ears and goes to his room.
It's bad influence.
What kind of a man is he?
- Isn't he like us? - He is unreasonable.
No, he isn't like us.
He is unreasonable.
I see a man who seems to be her husband.
He doesn't seem like the type.
Mi Young's husband, please raise your hand.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who forces his pregnant wife to raise the children and work?)
- He doesn't seem like the type. - I can't believe it...
from his hairstyle and such. You are Mi Young's husband, right?
- Yes, I am. - I see.
We want to know if your wife is telling us...
the truth.
Are her words true?
They aren't lies.
Do you understand why she is here as the final warning?
I think I understand.
- What? - I think I understand.
Are you scared by this atmosphere?
Why are you acting that way?
Everyone, don't clench your fist.
Do you realize that the current situation is hard...
on your wife?
To be honest, I don't know how...
the audience will think, but...
- Speak comfortably. - That's right.
- Speak your mind. - She is my woman.
Since she is a mother to my children,
I think she is the strongest woman in the world.
What?
She doesn't show that she is exhausted.
- She doesn't complain. - You mean she is always cheerful.
I bet you didn't listen when she complained.
I am sure she complained.
What made you ask her to work with you?
I don't trust other people.
Even if you don't trust other people,
you should stay by their side...
and turn them into trustworthy employees.
I bet he wants to cut down the cost of labor.
It costs money to hire employees.
Isn't that why you don't hire employees?
The desire to save money...
and my inability to trust people play a role.
Still, you shouldn't make your wife suffer like that.
(Yeong Ja can't help but laugh.)
Think about what you are saying.
"I only trust my wife. That's why she does all the work."
Is that what it is?
I don't trust people.
You know,
your wife doesn't trust you.
(Your wife doesn't trust you.)
You say you don't trust employees, but...
Why don't you take 1 or 2 children...
- Dividing the children. - to work...
and look after them?
My work is...
incredibly exhausting.
- Is it incredibly exhausting? - Yes, it is.
Don't you think your wife's work is incredibly exhausting?
There are employees at the restaurant,
but I have to work on my own.
She looks after three children as well.
The children...
When does the restaurant open and close?
- It opens at 4pm and closes at 2am. - 2am.
How many hours a day do you run the food truck?
- I go out at 6pm... - 6pm?
Yes. Then I return at 10 or 11pm. If I am late,
it's 12am.
- Do you go out at 6pm? - Yes.
Do you help at the restaurant before you go out?
- Do you work? - Yes.
Does he really help at the restaurant...
before he goes out? He says he does.
No, I help him.
- With the food truck? - Yes.
You lied.
My youngest child was puking,
so I asked him to help at the restaurant.
However, he said that he has to go out.
The child got so sick that I had to go to the ER.
With three children, I took a taxi to the hospital.
I called and told him to come, but he didn't show up.
The child was so sick that he collapsed.
I was so upset.
You received her call.
My children never got sick before that.
Since they are boys,
I didn't take it seriously.
I have a question. Do you have siblings?
- I have a younger brother. - You have a younger brother.
If I may ask,
do you have no memories...
of playing with your father?
I have a lot of those memories.
(He has a lot of those memories.)
Then why are you doing this?
Did you struggle financially...
- when you were little? - No, I didn't.
You didn't.
He received everything,
- but he doesn't give to his sons. - Seriously.
He received everything.
Will you continue to make your wife work...
after she gives birth to the fourth child?
- I want to do that. - You want to make her work.
(Her struggles don't end.)
I want both of us to work.
(It's like having five children.)
It's like having five children.
You want you and your wife to work when there are four children.
If it's possible, yes.
Will you continue on with this method?
Will you run a food truck while your wife...
We will find another way when we get there.
You didn't find another way when you had the third child.
What makes you think this time will be any different?
I will use this opportunity to turn over a new leaf.
Mi Young, what is your wish?
I want to focus on the children.
- That will be hard enough. - You know,
in less than a month,
she will give birth. She will have four sons.
Does she really need to work at the restaurant?
I gave the matter some thoughts before coming here.
I have to give up 1 of the 2 businesses.
Did you talk about it with your wife?
No, I thought about it by myself.
- You thought about it by yourself. - Okay.
The same promises have repeated themselves...
for 2nd and 3rd children.
- For 2nd and 3rd children. - That's right.
My goodness.
You always give empty promises, so she doubts you will change...
even after she has the fourth child.
She does everything so well...
that I couldn't help but think,
"This works."
If you trust your wife...
and think that she does everything well,
why did you tell her that she didn't help you in any way?
- That's right. - It's on our mind.
Why did you say that?
I am a bit grumpy.
I have a terrible character.
I am sure Mi Young was under a lot of stress.
- You know, - I am sure she was.
things escalated.
Did you apologize to her afterwards?
I have never apologized to her.
(Laughing)
I don't know what to do.
Mi Young's sister is here.
I don't know what I would do...
if my younger sister is in this position.
(Did she lose her mind?)
- Hello. - I would have gotten sued...
- for what I did. - I am a 33-year-old, Go Mi Ji.
You knew about your sister's situation, right?
- I'm so mad. - In your opinion,
how difficult of a situation do you think she is in?
I am tempted to tell her to get a divorce.
It's so frustrating that it drives me up the wall.
Did you talk to Mi Young about this?
My brother-in-law can't control his anger.
- He has a temper. - Yes.
I held myself back...
so as not to further ruin their relationship.
I couldn't say anything.
I sometimes go to my sister's house to look after the children.
She cries alone inside her room.
You hate your brother-in-law, right?
I hate him so much. I want to beat him.
Of course you hate him.
Is he your husband?
- Is he your husband? - No.
Hello.
Isn't he a member of the audience?
(Who is he?)
I am a regular customer at their restaurant.
(They didn't expect to have a regular customer.)
My goodness.
He is a regular customer.
It must be a good restaurant.
Is the salmon at their restaurant tasty?
Yes, it is. It's the best in Gwangju.
How did you visit the show?
To be honest, I sent the worry.
What? A regular customer sent the worry!
- That's incredible. - Mi Young said...
she doesn't want to visit the show.
However, it breaks my heart...
to see her work so much when she is nine months pregnant.
Please tell us...
what makes your heart ache.
It must be really bad for a customer to send a worry.
Whenever I go to the restaurant,
the children are playing around until 2am or 3am.
They don't always play nicely. They fight,
talk noisily, and cry.
A lot of customers stopped coming because of that.
One time, the baby pooped...
and I ended up changing the dirty diaper...
because everyone was busy.
Are you saying a regular customer...
- changed the baby's dirty diaper? - Yes.
(They become curious about the customer's identity.)
Have you always known Mi Young?
You know,
I visited the restaurant and found the food very tasty.
He is just a customer.
Why didn't you talk to the husband...
before sending the worry?
Whatever I say goes in one ear...
and out the other.
- Doesn't he listen? - He is greedy for money.
Why don't you help out at the restaurant?
Let's hear from the regular customer.
Even Mi Young's husband admitted...
that he has a bit of a temper.
- What do you think? - It's really bad.
- Really? - He shouts...
and throws things inside the restaurant.
- My goodness. - That's how angry he gets.
You are a father.
You have three children.
You should look after them.
I do play with them, but...
When?
The regular customer, have you seen him play with his kids?
Yes, but all he does is stroke their heads...
and kiss them on the cheek.
How long do you stay there?
(Do you even go home?)
Your husband said he's also stressed out.
He must be stressed out too.
However, he closes the food truck early on some days.
Whenever he finishes work early,
he plays golf or goes bowling with his acquaintances.
- He enjoys his hobbies too? - He enjoys his hobbies?
- Did we mishear her? - You mean indoor golf?
Yes. He plays golf 2 or 3 times a week.
- He plays golf quite often. - That's too much.
I know one of his acquaintances.
He posted a photo of my husband playing golf on his social media.
Did he go there secretly?
Yes, he lied to me to go there.
How can he play golf while his wife is working hard?
Sir.
Yes.
Is what your wife said true?
Yes, it's true.
(Please say it's not true.)
Because our kids go to school,
I started going home earlier than before.
- What does that mean? - That won't be the solution.
How early do you go home?
Around midnight.
1am if I'm late.
- Do you go home with your wife? - Yes, I do.
- Is he telling the truth? - Yes, I am.
Midnight, my foot.
It's between 1am and 2am.
I see.
I'm stressed out a lot too.
- I understand. - If I don't relieve it,
I might throw a tantrum to my kids...
- Right. - or to my wife...
even while knowing that she works so hard.
- Right. - I need something to do...
- to relieve my stress, - Of course.
but I can't do too many things.
- That's right. - So I enjoy my hobbies sometimes.
I see. It helps you...
- Yes, it relieves my stress. - relieve your stress, right?
Please hold on.
I wonder what you do while your husband...
is hanging out with his friends.
We use a lot of onions.
We have to peel and cut 2kg of onions every day.
- I crouch down... - 2kg?
to peel and cut onions.
My belly feels tight when doing it.
It's really hard for me.
Have you not thought of helping your wife...
when you finished work early?
It's not that I do sports by myself.
My customers ask me...
to play golf with them or to do other sports.
It's hard for me to refuse it.
What do you think your wife does to relieve her stress?
(What about your wife's stress?)
How does she relieve her stress?
I don't know how she does it.
Your regular customer might know that.
(Maybe his regular customer knows.)
His regular customer has all the answers.
I'm sure you've never seen his wife...
doing something to relieve her stress.
That's right. She's always working.
- She has no free time. - Exactly.
You said you have to play golf and go bowling...
with your regular customers because they helped your business.
Then who are those regular customers?
He's right here.
- Does he do sports with you? - Yes.
We do sports together.
- I don't believe this. - What is going on?
(Chaos)
- This is so confusing. - Let me throw a ball now.
I like bowling. I'm aiming at your face.
Please explain to us.
You shouldn't let him play when his wife works so hard.
- I didn't talk him into it. - You should've stopped him.
If he doesn't do that, he takes his stress out on his family.
(He wanted to prevent him from throwing a fit.)
It would be nice if you could look after the kids...
at least one day a week,
so your wife can do whatever she wants...
such as meeting her friends.
I think it would be good if you give her some free time.
However, when our children are separated from their mom...
- He keeps making excuses. - Right.
- He keeps beating around the bush. - He keeps saying the same thing.
What is he thinking?
- Please don't stand up. - Okay.
I can't let her go out alone.
Do you also have delusional jealousy?
(Does he have delusional jealousy?)
I'm serious.
I don't have delusional jealousy.
- I just feel anxious. - Are you anxious when she's out?
- I see. - Why?
- Something bad might... - Because the world is dangerous?
Something bad might happen to her...
- You're most dangerous to her now. - That's right.
Their children are here too.
- Where are you? - He's cute.
- He's so cute. - How adorable.
- He must be their second son. - The eldest son's name is Woong Do?
Is the one in the front your second son?
And he's Dae Joon.
Hi.
The eldest son, grab the mic.
- Woong Do. - He's cute.
Look how he's smiling.
- Hi. - Hi.
He looks so cute when he smiles.
Hi.
- Ask his name. - What is your name?
- I'm Jeong Woong Do. - Woong Do?
Why do you think you're here?
I'm here for a TV show.
He's adorable.
- Does your dad play with you often? - Yes.
- Did he tell you to say that? - Yes.
(While everyone else feels good to see the children's cute acts,)
Look at the second son.
(the guest quietly wipes tears.)
- He's excited to be on TV. - He's cute.
- He's playful. - What does he do with you?
We play with computer, read books about dinosaurs,
draw paintings, and...
- He's a good son. - We also run around.
Do you go to your parents' store with your siblings every day?
Yes.
Do you go there every single day?
Yes.
Is it fun when you're at the restaurant?
Yes.
He's a really good son.
He keeps saying yes. He wasn't told to do so, was he?
Exactly.
What's so fun to do there?
(What do you do at the restaurant?)
I run around.
- In the restaurant? - Yes.
My goodness.
Do you prefer being at the restaurant or home?
- Home. - Of course. It's game over.
Have you ever nagged your mom and dad to go home early?
- "Let's go home now." - Yes.
What did your mom and dad say?
"Let's go home."
- Do you understand what I say? - Yes.
(She can't go on with the interview.)
He's simply a good son.
He's thoughtful as he's the eldest son.
- Exactly. - Give the mic to your brother.
We'll have a talk with the second son.
Hi.
- Hello. - Hi. Good boy.
Do you also go to the restaurant every day?
Yes.
Do you like being at the restaurant or home?
- The restaurant. - What?
- Why do you like it there? - Yes.
- Is that so? - Okay.
We'll finish the interview now.
(Smiling)
It was fun.
Your kids are so cheery and adorable.
You raised them well.
You must've made a lot of effort.
What worries you the most regarding your children?
After we opened the restaurant,
our eldest son started to become a little violent.
He throws things when he's upset or stressed.
When he's angry, he swears too.
- What? He swears? - What does he say?
(With this innocent face?)
He said this word.
- But he's only eight. - The F-word?
Yes.
Actually,
when my husband drives,
- Many men do that. - he often swears.
He must've picked up the word.
I think he learned it from his dad.
Woong Do. The eldest son.
- She's talking to you. - Yes.
- Does your dad get angry often? - Yes.
- Does he yell often? - Yes.
- Does he swear a lot too? - Yes.
(He can't raise his head.)
What does your dad say when he's angry?
He says things like this.
(Shocked)
Did you learn to swear from your friend or Dad?
He learned it from Dad.
(He's a witness.)
Other dads don't teach their kids to swear, but your dad does.
Is swearing good or bad?
It's bad.
Then why did you swear?
Will you do it again or not?
I won't do it again.
He's influenced a lot by his dad.
- Yes. - His dad probably realized that.
He shows violent behavior...
- and learned it from his dad. - Yes.
I'm sorry. I should look at you.
(He answers automatically.)
Okay.
What do you think? Your son...
He can understand expressions like "violent behavior".
I know I shouldn't do that.
I feel bad about that.
You see, there are priorities...
of raising a family.
I wonder why you have to...
work this hard to save money.
I see more people who are richer than I am.
I want to become richer than they are.
I want to defeat them all.
That's how I feel.
What exactly do you mean by saying you want to defeat them?
I want to become richer than...
everyone who is richer than I am.
I saw a lot of people who became successful...
in a worse situation than mine.
However, I found out they all have...
a very supportive wife.
Since my wife is following my plan by working hard,
I think I can become as successful as they are.
You keep talking about a supportive wife.
The men who have become very successful...
with their wives' support and help have something in common.
They're all very grateful towards their wives.
You should give her something that keeps her going,
so she can get through hard times.
But you're simply saying...
that happy days will come someday...
and forcing her to sacrifice herself.
We are still young.
(He's unreasonable, right?)
I have only one child.
(Hyun has an only son.)
My son still asks me,
"Did you never change my diapers?"
He asks that as a sensitive teenager, and I have nothing to say.
This period of your children's childhood...
- is very important. - It's not coming back.
They're developing their personalities right now.
- It's a priceless moment, - Of course.
- in my opinion. - It's more important than anything.
Tell him clearly what you want.
Look him in the eye and speak clearly.
When Woong Do finishes school, he asks me...
(Her emotions explode.)
- Now you're showing your emotions. - When he finishes school...
- You've been holding it back. - Please go on.
He asks me after school, "Are you going to work today?"
He asks me every day.
Money is important,
but our kids are more important.
I want you to give us some free time.
(Give us some free time.)
(What is her husband thinking?)
Did you have a wedding?
No, not yet.
(This is not okay.)
What's your dream?
I used to work as a wedding makeup artist.
You never got to put on wedding makeup yourself.
- That's right. - I wanted to start working again...
After our fourth son is born...
and our kids grow up a bit, I want to start working again.
(Upset)
- Sir. - Yes?
Tell us clearly what you think about this.
Don't give a vague answer.
When our fourth son is born,
I'll change completely.
- Okay. - How?
I'll change the way my wife wants me to.
Let's start from Niel. Do you think it's a worry?
I definitely think it's a worry.
- Okay. - I was so surprised...
when she referred to taking care of four kids...
- as having free time. - Exactly.
It made me...
so sad.
I think it's a worry.
- It's a worry. - It's a worry.
- I think it's a serious worry. - You look shocked.
(Yeon Koung thinks it's a worry.)
He seems to interpret things the way he wants.
He tries to justify his behaviors.
- Keep your hands down. - Okay.
I can't help but become upset.
I hope their regular customer helps them a lot.
(I hope their regular customer helps them a lot.)
It's definitely a worry.
(Hyun thinks it's a worry.)
I'd like to say something to the wife.
It's not just your husband's fault.
You have your dignity.
You should stand up for yourself.
Say no when you have to.
- Do you understand? - Yes.
You should protect yourself.
You need to stay strong to protect your children.
Everyone, get your button ready.
Let me remind you that you can press it only once.
Please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, - 5, 4, 3,
- 2, 1. Stop. - 2, 1.
Any last words you want to say to your wife?
I think...
it was a good idea to come here.
I was aware of my problems,
but I could never change.
If we hadn't come here today,
I would have failed again.
I promise you in front of the whole country.
Promise your kids that you won't swear again.
I'd like to apologize to my kids too.
Give them a lot of love.
Promise them that you won't lose your temper.
I won't lose my temper.
Thank you.
All right. Let's see how many votes they won.
(The result)
Eight.
178? 168?
(What's the result?)
It's 158.
(158 votes)
The last worry is titled, "Please Spike My Friend".
We'd have to ask Yeon Koung for help.
Hello. I'm a man in my 20s.
My best friend is giving me headaches.
"Excuse me, young man. Please buy this chewing gum."
"Of course. Give me all you have."
"I'll buy everything."
"Excuse me. These pineapples are very fresh."
"Do you want to buy them?"
"Of course, I do."
"I have only 50 dollars right now."
"Please give me 50 dollars' worth of pineapples."
My friend's kindness brightens the world.
But he gives a lot of headaches to those around him.
"Hey, thank you for the delicious dinner."
"You're paying, right?"
"I don't have any money."
"I gave all my money to someone in need on the way here."
"Can you pay?"
It doesn't end there. "Do you have any money?"
"Make a donation."
"I don't have much money. I'm struggling these days."
"Make a donation. Your money is not yours."
"You should share it with the world."
"You're so cold."
"You shouldn't live that way."
Why do I have to be insulted like that?
Please bring him to his senses.
(Please help me.)
Let's meet the man who sent us this story. Please come on out!
(Whose friend is way too generous?)
(Lee Jeong Hoon)
Be careful.
Oh, my.
(Struggling)
What happened?
On the street,
how much does your friend give to what kind of people?
When he sees a homeless person on the street,
he gives him 50 dollars.
When he sees old ladies selling chewing gum, flowers,
or rice cakes on the subway,
he buys more than 10 dollars' worth of stuff.
He feels sorry for insurance salespeople,
so he signed up for three different kinds of medical insurance.
- Three different kinds? - Yes.
One is enough.
He signed up for three.
For some time, he paid 500 dollars a month...
for insurance.
(It sounds pretty serious.)
But he's helping others with his own money.
Isn't it okay as long as it makes him happy?
- What's the problem? - You have a point.
But he just got a job.
He needs to save up some money.
He gives money to others without planning.
In the end, I have to pay for his food and drinks.
To be honest, it annoys me.
One day, he must have felt bad.
- He said he'd buy me a drink. - He did?
We went to a bar.
But an old man selling pineapples came in.
(An old man selling pineapples came in.)
He let us have a taste.
- They usually do that. - Yes.
He paid 50 dollars for one pineapple.
He didn't take the change.
- For one pineapple? - Yes.
(That's hard to believe.)
We got a problem when we had to pay.
It was supposed to be your friend's treat.
He suddenly said he had no money left.
I said, "You said it was your treat."
He said, "I gave all my money to that old man."
You must pay the most among your friends.
Isn't that why you sent us the story?
- That's right. - You couldn't take it anymore.
It's totally true.
I heard he even forces his friends to help others.
We were on our way to Seoul to have a meal.
We found a homeless person.
My friend told me, "Open your wallet."
I said, "Why?"
"Just take out your wallet." "I don't want to."
He took my wallet away. I had about 30 dollars in my wallet.
- He gave it all... - All of it?
to the homeless person.
I said, "Hey, what about us? We have to eat."
He said, "It's not going to kill us if we skip a meal."
"But to those people, it's a big deal."
"They must have been starving for a while."
I said, "But it was my money."
He said, "Your money is not yours."
Why? Your money is yours.
"Did you have money when you were born?"
"You were born with nothing. It's not yours."
I said, "That money was from my mom."
He said, "It's the same for your mom."
"She didn't have any money when she was born."
Even the money you earn doesn't belong to you?
He means that it belongs to the whole world...
and that we should all share it.
I can't make up my mind, to be honest.
I want to...
be on his friend's side.
- As he means well. - Yes.
I think I will.
Imagine you have a friend like him.
- He takes your money. - But if they're still friends,
doesn't it mean that it's not that serious?
If his friend had caused him serious harm,
they wouldn't be friends anymore.
Has he lost any friends yet?
Yes. That's...
- He has? - Really?
Yes.
He has. Please go on.
We used to hang out...
with four other friends.
- Since middle school. - Yes.
But one friend...
My friend is always late...
because he helps other people on the way.
He sometimes doesn't even show up. In the end, the other friend...
told him, "You obviously care more about strangers."
- "Let's stop seeing each other." - That's understandable.
(What made him lose his friend?)
Let's meet his friend. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is the friend who is too busy helping strangers?)
Your friend is very worried about you.
What do you think about it?
What I'm doing is nothing wrong. I'm just trying to help others.
I don't know what the problem is.
(I knew it.)
You really pay more than 10 dollars for a pack of chewing gum?
The person who was selling it on the subway...
handed out papers that describe his situation.
After reading it,
- I felt sorry for him. - Was it long?
Yes. I thought I'd feel guilty...
if I ignore it.
- Guilty? - Yes.
(Are we all guilty?)
It's good that you do good deeds,
but you become financially unstable,
and you bother your friends.
What do you think about how your friends feel about it?
We didn't meet yesterday. We've known each other for 20 years.
I'm sure they understand it.
(This isn't paused.)
What I'm worried about is that...
you forced other people to do good...
by saying that they'll be punished if they don't.
Yes. Repeatedly.
Why do you force them?
When we help others,
it makes you feel good.
You also feel proud.
I want to share that feeling with my friends,
so I motivate them.
You're not motivating them. You're forcing them.
He should do it on his own.
I'm sure he'll understand...
- since he's my friend. - Since he's your friend?
You think that's okay since he's your friend?
You think it's okay to open his wallet...
and give 30 dollars?
I believe money changes hands.
It's his money,
but if he uses it to help other people,
I'm sure his parents will be happy too.
He's saying that...
he did that to share happiness.
He's contradicting himself because...
when I'm nice to him,
- he doesn't appreciate it. - What?
Recently, my mother bought fruits...
for his family.
- Your mother? - Yes.
So I gave him the box of fruit.
While we were on the way out with the box,
he ran into his friend who does deliveries.
They talked for a while,
then suddenly that friend took the box.
So...
I was shocked.
- You just gave it to him. - I know.
- So... - Gosh.
I asked him, "What did you just do?"
I said, "What do you think you're doing?"
He was like, "What?" I said, "Why did you give him the box?"
I said, "It's for you, not him."
He said, "He needs help, and I already have fruits at home."
He said it was fine.
It feels terrible to witness your present given away.
There's one more.
On his birthday last year,
I decided to treat him and bought him a jacket.
You're a good friend.
I know. Men don't do that.
I told him to wear what I bought for him, and he said okay.
I was waiting for him,
and I saw him shivering in a hoodie only.
- So I asked... - I'm getting nervous.
"What have you done to the jacket I bought for you?"
He said he gave it to his friend who delivers because he looked cold.
He said he gave it to him, so he wouldn't catch a cold.
Why would you give your present to other people?
I have a friend who delivers for a living.
I ran into him on the way.
He looked very cold doing the delivery.
I was worried he would catch a cold.
I gave him the jacket, so he'd wear it while he delivers.
What about the fruits?
- The fruits were from his mother. - Right.
His mother was being nice,
and bought it for you and your mother.
You didn't appreciate it.
I already had a lot of fruits at home.
That's yours.
This was a gift. It was meaningful.
I was sure he'd understand since we're friends.
(Friends don't make everything okay.)
Did you...
at least tell your mother that...
your friend's mother had sent a gift?
- Does your mother know? - Right.
- No, I didn't tell her. - Gosh.
(Impassive)
(That's not acceptable.)
(Get a grip.)
I think it's wrong to think...
that your friend who delivers for a living...
is poor.
Are you saying everyone who delivers for a living...
is poor? That's not true.
It might be a good experience for them.
Do you think he was happy to take that gift?
I don't think he'd feel so great...
to receive help from you just because you think he's in need.
When we asked him questions, he said...
it's fine because they're friends.
His idea of a friend...
is different from others.
He may be fine, but other may not be.
Of course.
You aren't considerate in that sense.
We, his friends, are having a hard time.
We came here together.
We were taking a subway to see a game.
There was an organization that helps children in need.
He was quietly signing up for it.
We were waiting for him in the back.
"Hey, you should sign up."
But I'm not really willing to do it.
Of course. You shouldn't if you don't want to.
I told him I'll do it next time.
He kept forcing me to do it in front of them.
I signed up after arguing.
I canceled it without him knowing...
at home.
Recently, I parked my car outside my house.
Someone scratched my car and ran.
I checked the surveillance camera...
and found the guy.
He said he'll pay for it.
- He admitted it. - Yes.
But my friend here said, "What's the point when it's barely damaged?"
We had a bit of argument because of that,
and I told the culprit to go.
I was so upset that I decided not to fix it.
Gosh.
Then a few days later,
I guess he felt bad.
He gave me money for the repair.
He gave me about 400 dollars.
Why did he give it to you?
I don't know. I took it and got my car fixed.
I wasn't really happy about it.
I felt guilty.
- Of course it feels leery. - Yes.
The culprit said he admits it and is willing to pay for the damage.
- It could've ended clean. - I know.
Why does he do that?
We met the other driver.
Did he look shabby?
He was...
(Did he look shabby?)
He was quite old.
He looked older than my father.
He said he didn't know.
If he knew,
he would've called the number on the car.
After I listened to him, I saw my friend's car,
and his car was barely damaged.
(His car was barely damaged.)
It's not your car. Why do you decide it?
I thought we could handle it...
if we paint it ourselves.
Why did you pay for the repair?
It turns out the repair cost 300 dollars.
- I know. - I felt bad after I found out.
You must've complained.
Yes, we have, but every time,
he says,
it's not for his own good.
That's what drives people nuts.
How do you feel so far?
(How does he feel so far?)
(Has it changed your mind?)
If he were my son, and he were my son's friend,
I'd tell my son...
to keep being friends with him.
If his friends are...
in trouble,
I believe he will be the first one...
to help them out.
That makes sense.
I felt the same.
I thought he was amazing,
but what I'm worried about is that...
it's fine that you do it.
If you think what goes around comes around,
do it for your own good.
But I don't like the fact that you force other people.
"You'll pay for it."
"Don't you feel bad for them?"
I don't like the fact...
that he forces other people.
- That's what I don't like either. - Right.
Look.
I'm speechless because...
he's making his friends bad people.
For example, if you don't have money,
you can borrow it from your friend.
"I'll pay you back."
Then you can help them.
You're not different from a thief if you just take from your friend.
That's wrong. You don't know...
what that 30 dollars mean to your friend, right?
Your friend might have to pay for his mom's medication.
See? You force them.
"It's for the good." That doesn't make it okay.
That's not right.
Do you help people in need...
because you have an experience of...
being in need?
When I was young, my father's business...
went bankrupt.
So when I see people in need, it reminds me of that time...
which makes me want to help them.
If you're in need, you should take what matters.
- Right. - You should be able to...
say no to things you can't do.
That's what upsets me.
He went back to university,
and paid for drinks and meals for his juniors...
and lent them money...
that he couldn't pay for the rent, so he called me.
He called other friends and asked for 200 dollars.
"I couldn't pay for the rent."
You spent all your money on buying drinks for juniors?
I went back to school after serving the army when I was 24.
I was the oldest. Other students were all younger than me.
I bought snacks for them in the cafeteria.
I also paid for their meals.
You should know the limit.
Actually the thing is...
you have the desire...
to get compliments that you're a good person.
- Before he realizes. - So he keeps doing that...
without thinking about the future.
When was the time you were so furious?
We planned to go on a trip to Jeju Island at the end of the year.
- To Jeju Island? - Yes.
So we saved money together.
- We saved about 1,000 dollars. - Gosh.
He took care of the money back then.
Suddenly, he said he didn't...
- You chose the wrong person. - You shouldn't have let him do it.
Go on. He didn't have the money?
He said he didn't have the money, and I asked why.
He said...
he had lent the money to someone in trouble.
So I asked whom he lent the money to.
He said it was his acquaintance, but it turned out...
that the person is someone who knows his acquaintance.
- So he's a stranger to him. - He lent the money to a stranger.
I was angry, so I said, "What about the trip we planned?"
He said,
"We can go on a trip anytime. We can go later."
"But he could've died without that money."
I was speechless.
So what did you and your friends do?
He didn't even get the money back.
- He didn't get it back? - No.
He could've died without 1,000 dollars?
- What situation was he in? - What happened to him?
He didn't have enough money...
to pay his credit card bills.
I wanted to help him, but I didn't have any money.
The money me and my friends saved was all I had.
I lent him the money because he said he would repay me.
However, he didn't transfer the money to my bank account...
when he promised to repay me, so I paid back our fund...
- with my own money. - Gosh.
You should ask him to pay back your money.
It's hard for me to ask people to pay me back my money.
He'll probably repay me when he becomes better off.
- You're too kind. - Why can't you say that?
- It's not... Gosh. - Right.
Did you lend money to someone else who hasn't repaid you?
I lent between 2,000 and 3,000 dollars in total.
It's including only big chunks of money.
- Do you have a girlfriend? - Yes.
- Do you? - Yes.
Everyone in the audience...
(They all exclaimed in one mind.)
Doesn't your girlfriend have a problem...
with your behaviors like this?
She had a lot of problems when we started dating.
On my way to a department store to buy a birthday gift for her,
I gave some money to a homeless person.
After I gave the money to that person,
I realized that I didn't have any money left to buy a gift.
So we just had a meal and went home.
After that, she broke up with me.
- She... - I would've done the same.
She didn't break up with him because he didn't give her a gift.
I'm sure she was disappointed in him repeatedly...
because he spends his money without planning.
I don't think it's because she didn't get a gift.
She probably had pent-up disappointment.
Now, I'm doing it secretly.
- But still... - You're helping people secretly?
- Yes, I'm doing it secretly. - Gosh.
We're not saying that you should stop...
- doing good deeds. - She's right.
If a gum is 2 dollars, don't give away all the 50 dollars you have.
Just give that person 10 or 20 dollars.
You cause damage to people around you by giving away all you have.
When you've spent all your money, you even use your friends' money,
and you call yourself a kind person.
It's odd. We don't understand.
Please explain to us.
First of all, I didn't do it to satisfy my greed...
You're repeating the same thing.
It's not like I do wrong things.
But you did satisfy your greed by doing that.
- You enjoyed the feeling of... - For his own satisfaction.
pride and joy alone.
Did you feel that or not?
However, I didn't do anything wrong.
Did your friends do something wrong?
Was saving money for a trip a wrong thing to do?
- No, but... - You're not making any sense.
You should at least respect them.
Well, it's actually very simple.
If you've made a promise, you must keep it.
Use the money you have left after doing that.
Do whatever you can do to help others...
with the money you have.
Don't make your friends look bad...
and force them to join you in helping others.
Say a word to your friend for the last time.
It's good to share kindness.
- But don't force us to do the same. - Right.
I want you to show your friends...
- half of respect you show others. - I see.
Let's start with Niel.
- I think it's a worry. - I see.
I also think it's a worry.
(Jung Won thinks it's a worry.)
I also think it's a worry.
I hope you will pay more attention to the people around you...
- while helping people in need. - I see.
But I think he has subjective judgments about helping others.
I hope you learn more about donation properly,
so you can help the people who really need your help.
That's how I feel.
Right? You don't seem to consider that.
All right. We still have one more guest left.
Oh, no. I'm sorry.
- I'm really sorry. - He's been holding the buzzer.
- You haven't voted? - No, I haven't.
- Oh, there you are. - Yes.
Hyun hasn't voted yet.
I can completely understand him...
based on everything I've heard.
(Hyun took the guest's friend's side the whole time.)
(Has he changed his mind?)
We can see some weaknesses of our friends...
- when we get to know them, right? - That's right.
He has that kind of personality.
I think they could understand that aspect of his personality.
(I'm on your side to the end.)
You could put only 10 dollars in this side of pocket,
and the rest of money in the other pocket.
Or you could avoid letting him take care of the money. I think...
it's not a bad thing to have a friend like him.
- Therefore, - You don't think it's a worry.
- I don't think it's a worry. - Okay.
I see. If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Say a word to your friends.
Thank you for caring about me.
I just want to say...
that I don't do things like that to satisfy my greed.
(You win.)
So please understand that.
(You're unbelievable.)
Also, I'm planning to do volunteer work...
in a country where people need help.
I hope you guys will join me.
(I hope you guys will join me.)
- He's interfering them again. - He probably has more worries now.
He might come back to the show.
(He became even more worried.)
Please show us the result of "Please Spike My Friend".
(The result)
What could be the result? How hard should the spike be?
(How many people think it's a worry?)
It's over 100.
- It's over 100. - It's going up.
It's 157. He got 157 votes.
My goodness. All right.
I hope you will keep your friendship strong.
If I had pushed the button, the vote would've been tied.
As a result, "The Final Warning" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive a cash prize.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)